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5 KEYS TO PARENTING A CHILD WITH AUTISM

June 24, 2010
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Broad Spectrum Autism, OCD, Anxiety, JRA, Auditory Processing Issues, Panic Attacks, and Hypersensitivity DisorderNobody said that parenting is easy, but when faced with a diagnosis of Autism Spectrum Disorder, Anxiety Disorder, OCD, Panic Attacks, Hypersensitivity Disorder or any other diagnosis in a child’s younger years, it can be overwhelming.  Many parents become overwhelmed with the diagnosis.  Below are 5 keys to parenting a child with Autism:

  1. Understand Your Options – There are many options parents with children on the Autism Spectrum are given in the treatment of their child.  Some involve diet readjustments, others handle symptoms through medication, while others employ holistic methods.  So experts tout their own way of handling this illness, but parents need to do what is right and will work for their child.  Do as as much fact checking as possible because not every method for handling autism will work for a particular child.
  2. Be Open - You will find many who offer advice on how to handle a child with Autism, some solicited, but many times it is unsolicited.  Just be open and vet out the information given, because you never know when you might stumble across something that might useful and helpful for your own situation.
  3. Keep a Diary - This may sound silly, but write down the goals you have for your child and when he or she reaches that milestone date it and write it down.  When you look back you can see the accomplishments they have made and knowing they have achieved something only bolsters your resolve to keep moving forward.
  4. Do Not Give In -  Many parents are faced with this diagnosis, but it does not have to be the end.  It can be the beginning of a journey that will lead to opportunities for that child.  The road is hard and long, but the end result is worth it if parents do not give in to despair that sometimes comes along, or the feelings of wanting to give up.  Take the time to share your journey with other parents faced with similar situations and you will forge a common bond that will give you the courage to continue.    
  5. Don’t Make Excuses – It is only human nature to lean on a crutch of excuses when difficulties arise.  But when parents allow the diagnosis to become an excuse it disables the child from reaching his or her fullest potential.  Whenever parents say, “it’s okay he’s autistic” “she can’t do it she’s autistic”, it becomes the fallback for failure.  Wherever a parent set the bar, the child will meet it.  If it is set low, they will meet it.  It is is set high, they will meet it. 

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